What you like?

A man is known by his choice. If you want to judge a person you need to know about likings. It is only thing which a person cannot pretend and a good connoisseur can judge a person. When I talk about likings then it includes everything from his eating habits to his hobby , film liking ,what he njoy doing in his leisure time and his friend circle.
Now the question why do I need to judge a person?
In every phase of ur life u need to trust few people and ur life revolve around them. Whether you want to start friendship or u need ur life partner or you selecting a team member.
Every type of selection requires some specific traits but still good person is good whatever may be the role. What it requires to be likable (not successful because success is always counted by ur fame and money) is not to be intelligentsia but to be better person (by better person I mean with good attitude).

How to decide which are good/bad likings?

This depends upon for which type of role r u going 2 u judge a person. First of you should be clear of ur requirement then only u can judge a person.
For example I can quote an example which I experienced while interacting with HR Head of HCL America. In one of his session he asked about the food liking of different people who came to meet him. He categorized them is three category starting from non-veg to simply veg and eventually concluded that person who prefer simple veg (rice-dal) are easy to pacify and vice versa.
This was just one simple example where he judged people from their likings. Similarly if you feel u are smart enough to judge a person you can use their traits, but caution is that you should be aware about urself.

Secret of Happiness

What u all think is the secret of happiness? It has been million dollar question and always will be, I say it is billion dollar question. It is for what you have been working through out ur life and still get short of it. How many of you think that happiness could be attained by money? The answers would be NO and that too 100%. Then why do we always compare or (associate, would be right word) with it.

If happiness would have been that difficult to get then a normal men might not have ever achieved. But why did we all languish for it?

The king of Bhutan has coined a new term Gross National Happiness (GNH) in 1972 for criticism to his poorly growing economy. The four pillars of GNH are the promotion of equitable and sustainable socio-economic development, preservation and promotion of cultural values, conservation of the natural environment, and establishment of good governance. This has given new way to human society which enabled them to think beyond industrial development and think of ‘human’. Oh we have deviated from main topic and got more technical. So dear what should we do to attain HAPPINESS (trillon dollar ? )?

So let me start first and share with you few of my secrets which are 100% my copyright and anyone using it has to pay royalty :-).

1. Enjoy others success especially of ur near ones. This will prolong ur happiness.
2. Try to help other as much as possible (‘Neki kar dariya main daal’ it holds true even today). Always keep the credit of goodness because u never know when will you need it.
3. Always feel yourself in other’s shoe when taking any decision which affects surrounding. What you expect from other you should practice urself. Because you know that charity begins at home.
4. Try to make ‘true’ friends. Just ask question to urself that whether do u have one? If NO then there is short coming. I think you are firm believer of Don Corleone (of GOD FATHER) who says that “Nothing is personal in life everything is business “and business are never done with friends.
5. Money is means to live life not life.
6. Last, but not the least is you need to pay for your deeds in this life; there is nothing called Heaven or Hell where the scores are going to settle.

So did you have hint to be happy? Do you have few more tricks and techniques? Let the ideas flow.

Why are you unhappy?

I could think of these few reason of unhappiness.
1. You always think that whole of ur life is full of troubles and others are simply enjoying.
2. You never find someone to help you in ur dark hours.
3. You always find some people’s behavior rude towards you.
4. You want to share lots of thing with other but question is whom to trust?
5. You never had enough money to do smthing.
6. Why such bad things always happen to me?

Now just try to map each point from ways to happy with different point s of unhappiness. It is just one - 1 mapping.

Were you able to map them? Give a thought to each one of them. Relax and think.

Hope to c u happy soooon!

Ideas and comments are invited .